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Girl friends.

Aren’t they the best ever? I think they can be when you have the right mix of women. It seems like it’s getting harder and harder for me to find gals that I click with and that want to make the effort to keep the friendship going. I’ve had lots of great friends that I’ve let go because no matter how hard I tried to keep the friendship alive, they didn’t reciprocate. It’s very frustrating and has made me very miserable at times.

Right now, I don’t have any good girlfriends. I have some friends who are fun to hang out with once in a while, but as time goes on, I’m finding I have less and less in common with them. I have been feeling like I need some good girlfriends that I can go have fun with a lot more lately. The only problem is that I’m pretty shy so it’s harder for me to make friends and form lasting friendships than most people. So I started a meetup group for women who want to build friendships but are also shy and have the same problems with other women being, well, flaky.

I have found a few gals in the group that I get along with really well and I really look forward to spending more time with them, but I am not sure if they feel the same way. I’m not sure what I need to do to be confidant that I will be able to find some good girl friends.

Do you have a group of girl friends that you love spending time with? How do you let them know that you like spending time with them and want to get to know them better? Let me know your opinion in the comments!